CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Posted by Pam Champagne, 09/12/09 09:00 AM

As with everyone, my childhood shaped me into the person I am today… a solitary individual who enjoys my own company more than being with others. Large crowds and gatherings make me uncomfortable. I get claustrophobic so it’s difficult for me to attend writing conferences.

I grew up a loner in a rural area of Maine during a period when much of the country started to merge into the fast lane. I drank raw milk and never went to the doctor. My Dad, a terrific woodsman, provided all our meat and fish. We ate vegetables grown in our garden and canned by my Mom for the winter months. I attended a one room schoolhouse for the first five grades. I watched Ozzie and Harriet at someone’s house once and wondered if families like that really existed. We had no television and no phone. My mother washed clothes a wringer washing machine.

Lest you think I’m complaining, let me assure you, I’m not. I loved my childhood. Unfortunately, my mother didn’t share my contentedness. She divorced my father when I was twelve and dragged me, kicking and screaming, to civilization. My best friend in those twelve years was my imagination, and I know it set the stage for my writing career.

Here are a few of my fondness childhood memories.

1. Running on the lawn in my bathing suit when it rained—even during thunderstorms. I had no fear of lightning strikes.

2. The sweet scent of wild strawberries in the fields.

3. Sinking my teeth into warm ripe plums from my backyard. I can remember the juice running down my chin as if it were yesterday.

4. Catching frogs. I bet I spent twenty-five hours a week doing this in the summer. They were all so tame by September, they didn’t bother jumping, so I just picked them up.

5. Two weeks of bible school every summer presented by a traveling minister. I learned the song Jesus Loves Me.

6. Winter days with my Dad in the woods and the smell of an open fire heating up wild rabbit stew for our lunch.

7. Racing down Pony King’s hill in the winter on my wooden sled.

8. Our once a year summer trip to eat lobsters on the rocky coast. I loved the pungent odor of seaweed and used to “pop” it in my mouth.

9. Pretending our beagle was a horse, his leash the reins. I’d chase him everywhere as if I were galloping on a big, black stallion.

10. Reading, except there were never enough books to keep me satisfied. Thank God for Mrs. Jackson, my teacher, who supplied me with many interesting stories.

What is my point to this blog? I’m wondering that myself. I guess my childhood explains the settings of my books…usually rural or wilderness as in Bed of Lies and Alaskan Heat.

As an adult I returned to my beloved Maine and have no desire to live anywhere else.

Comments: [6]

  1. Pam,
    I have a friend who choses to live this way now. No heat save for her potbelly woodstove and no running water. I’m okay doing it for a weekend at camp, but give me a flush toilet, hot shower and a conventional stove and I’m much happier!

    I always wondered how you lived so contendedly in the middle of nowhere. >wink<

  2. 2 Luanna

    Hi Pam,
    The stars are so much brighter away from people. I love back country camping for about a week, and that makes me appreciate my hot shower all the more. Oh, and I used to pop rockweed in my mouth too!

    Comment by Luanna · Sep 12, 10:16 PM
  3. Pam,

    What wonderful memories. Thanks so much for sharing them!

  4. That’s me too.
    You get the right answers and more
    information from eharlequin forums and other writers
    blogs than Chapter and National conferences.
    Plus it isn’t the end of the world that I cannot afford
    to attend these conferences.

    Comment by Jane · Sep 13, 04:02 PM
  5. My parents are the most unstable people I know. We moved every year, sometimes more, it was hell. My mothers parents were a whole different story. They owned an 18 acre farm in the middle of fruit country in Reedley California. 18 acres of plums, across the street was a nectorine orchard, down the street a grape orchard, behind our plums was a sunkiss orange orchard and across the canal from that a smokehouse almond orchard.
    To keep grandpa busy after retirement, he drove the truck from the fields to the packing sheds and on lunch would bring in 5 gallon buckets of fruit and line them up along the walk way for all the grandkids.
    Grandma taught us how to can and dry fruit and veggies picked right off the farm and we cried when they would try and make us eat the sheep that we’d refused to accept weren’t pets for dinner.
    The house was built by Grandpa and his brother and it was unlike any I have ever seen since. That farm was the only place I ever called home and when i close my eyes I can still smell it. And if I keep ‘em closed I can still here Grandpa waking us up at 5 am to go help pick the garden; “Hey you kids! Get up ‘thar! You gonna sleep all day?”

  6. Thanks everyone for the great comments! Lainey, you’ve traveled a rough road. Good for you for preservering.

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